I <\/strong>– Is it positive?<\/p>\n\n\n\n S<\/strong> – Simple and achievable<\/p>\n\n\n\n H<\/strong> – Have an action plan<\/p>\n\n\n\n Children often hear tales of wishes and vast dreams, but these stories seldom provide a blueprint for realizing those aspirations. Giving kids tangible goals allows them to act towards making dreams a reality. It empowers them, fostering critical thinking and proactiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The cornerstone of goal-setting is understanding its personal significance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Goals tied to personal relevance are more likely to inspire action and commitment. This ownership fosters motivation and provides profound satisfaction upon accomplishment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Emphasizing intrinsic motivation, where children pursue outcomes for their personal fulfillment rather than external rewards, sets the foundation for future success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Parents inevitably influence their children’s desires. However, goal-setting should be child-led, with parents guiding and not dominating the process. Helping children prioritize their multiple ambitions cultivates the skill of task prioritization, preventing feelings of being overwhelmed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Goals framed positively are inherently more effective. Instead of saying, “I don’t want to be late for school,” a more constructive framing is “I want to be ready for school on time.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n This positive restructuring offers clarity and actionable steps. For example, your child can pack their bag the night before and lay their clothes out. This will help them be ready for school on time. It’s easier for kids to focus on what they will do rather than what they will stop doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Successful goal-setting with your kids means their goals should be simple and achievable. For younger children, short-term goals can help them stay motivated. So it’s important to find a balance between challenging goals that are still achievable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Keep goals age appropriate and help explain to your child why the goal is reasonable or not. For example, your eight-year-old might want to become a chef, which is unrealistic at this stage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n But you could encourage them to set a different goal, such as learning how to cook a meal or bake a cake. Explain how taking steps towards a smaller goal can help them reach their big dream. Learning to cook at home can help them become a chef later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A goal that is too easy or ambitious is not great for motivation and will affect how competent a child feels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ask leading questions to help your child figure out if their goal is too easy or too challenging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Letting them explore the answers will encourage them to think critically. It will help them set goals that empower them rather than undermine their confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Once your child has identified their goals and knows they are achievable, they need to create a plan that breaks the goal down into manageable steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When kids break their goal down into daily actions, it helps: <\/p>\n\n\n\n Working backwards can be an effective strategy for taking action. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Here are some questions your child can consider:<\/p>\n\n\n\n When prioritizing their goals, ask your kids to schedule steps they can take to achieve them. This will help them focus their time, energy, and resources. <\/p>\n\n\n\n As time passes, you can help your child revisit the steps they have taken to achieve their goal. It’s possible that their priorities have changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Life is constantly changing. What was important to your child two months ago may not be as important now, and that’s alright. It’s your job to figure out if your child has other goals in mind or if they have given up because it was hard. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Perseverance and determination are challenging concepts for young kids. You may need to break the steps down further so your child can build confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Setting goals and working to achieve them increase dopamine levels in the brain. This improves mood and well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The process of setting goals can also help the brain form new neural connections. This is particularly true for children. Their brains have more plasticity and form neural pathways every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Teaching them essential goal-setting strategies at an early age can help them develop healthy habits. Following steps to achieve a goal helps improve self-discipline. It also increases their ability to regulate emotions<\/a> and behavior. Emotional regulation is one of the most critical skills we can help our children develop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A centralized location to trace their goals using a worksheet can be of great benefit as it helps improve:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Self-motivation is key for goal-setting for kids. Taking responsibility for what they want and how they want to get it encourages a growth mindset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"goal](\"https:\/\/www.brightsprouts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Infographic-Goal-Setting-for-Kids-WISH-Method.jpg\")
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#2 I – Is It Framed Positively?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
#3 S – Simple and Achievable<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Goals Aren’t Set in Stone<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The Neuroscience Behind Goal Setting<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Goal-Setting Worksheet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Goal Setting and a Growth Mindset<\/h2>\n\n\n\n